Live Life On Your Own Terms



Live life on your own terms.


It's your choice.


You get to choose which door you walk through.


AND... it's nobody else's business.


Sometimes, friends, family, colleagues, acquaintances, and even followers think they have the right to question what you are doing.


This has happened many times in my life.


Back in the 1990s when I was training as a Counsellor I had someone ask me how I would feel if someone harmed themselves as my client and how could I live with that.


When I changed jobs frequently, I had people continually telling me I needed to find the one thing I'd stay doing forever.


In my paint company I had people tell me how I should do and not do certain things.


Now, with this new business, having changed the focus on my page and group to align with it, I have people questioning what I'm doing and why.


Years ago, I'd take onboard other people's comments. I'd enter into discussions about them. I'd berate myself. I'd feel guilty.


These days, I do not take their thoughts onboard. These days, I do not even engage in their thoughts.


Not at all.


I know who I am. I know what I am doing. I know where I am going.


This is a little reminder for you.


What you choose to do in your life is your business. And your business only. You do not have to enter into conversations with anyone about what you are doing and why.


Not. With. Anyone.


With love,